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Writer's pictureTina Chakrabarti

Creating your Life to Live in a Box?

Updated: Dec 25, 2024

6th March 2024

 

Living in the Box

"When presented with lots of possibilities to choose from, what do you do?"

Method of Elimination... that is how we are taught to take a decision, reach a conclusion and make the "so-called" right choices in our lives.


What is defined as a Right Choice? It is the choice that will deliver the pre-determined Right Outcome.


When you use the Method of Elimination, you systematically exclude everything that does not fit into the neat little box, you have defined as your Life.


Let's play with an example...

You are planning to buy a new dress for this amazing party.

Your boyfriend thinks you look amazing in Purple.

Also, you have decided, that you will look great in a round neck, flowing gown.


Now, the picture is formed, the outcome is determined and the box has been defined.


Anything that is not purple, not round neck, not flowing gown, does not enter the equation.

"Not this... Not this... Definitely not this... Absolutely not this... Maybe not this..."


Does that sound fun? It's exhausting to say the least!


Instead of having a fun party, exploring the playground of possibilities, you eliminate everything that does not match your pre-concluded outcomes. (you think!) You also pat yourself on the back for doing a great job!

When you exclude possibilities and eliminate choices, you struggle to create a Limited, Contracted, Mediocre life. You spend this life, living in a neat little box... Similar to or same as everyone else.


What if, there were no wrong choices...only experiences?

What if, you didn't have to make one choice that will solve everything?

What if, you gave yourself permission to make multiple choices to explore possibilities?

What if, you didn't have to define the outcome, design the limitations of your life?


You can go...

"This... And this... Definitely this... Of course this... Also this... Why not this?"


When you include everything & exclude nothing, you effortlessly create an Unlimited, Expansive, Great life that is fun for you, unique for you and is highly creative.

You can live your life as an invitation to the energy of Chaos - the undefined, uncontrollable generative energy. Every day can be fulfilling, enjoyable, too-much from the standards of this reality.


Many will judge you... Try to stop you... Make you wrong.

You might end up loosing some friends.

You will be branded Weird and Crazy!

It might not be easy.... but you will definitely be very Happy!


Why live in a Box when you can live wild and free?

Most leaders and visionaries are not people in their right minds... all of them have been called eccentric or crazy at some point in time. They are courageous, brave, curious people who refuse to live a limited life. For them, giving-up is not an option and success is not a definition,


Your choice to live a greater life, has the power to inspire thousands of people and change the world!


Destroy the Box you have chosen to live your life in... it's way too much fun outside.


Choose it... Experience it... Celebrate it!


If you would like to learn how to play with the infinite possibilities, you can visit the catalogue of the Programs categorized under the sections - Empowering You, BE-ing YOU & Daily Tools and choose the program that resonates with you the most. It will be my pleasure to provide Tools and Techniques to create a Greater and Happier Life, Living & Future. You will receive personalized help and support to break the beliefs, limitations and other imposed barriers that hold you back.


If you have any questions / clarifications, feel free to Contact me.


I hope this episode has been a contribution.


 

With Happiness,

Tina Chakrabarti



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