Are you Being the Valuable Product of your Life?
- Tina Chakrabarti
- Mar 8, 2023
- 2 min read
8th March 2023
Today, I want begin by asking you a question.
How much do you value yourself?
What defines it, how do you derive this value?
Do you derive it from perception of people about you?
OR
Does it come from the place of how many people approve of you, need you, depend on you?
Do you calculate your value depending on how much your boss values you?
How many meetings you get invited to?
Is it defined by whether your family approves of you, whether the society approves of you?
Is it defined by how many friends you have?
How many social media followers you have?
How many likes you got on your post or video or reel?
Do you realize that by making the choice of staying relevant and remaining valuable according to this madness, you are inviting and surrounding yourself with needy people who will eventually suck you dry?
Where is the living in that? Where is the Joy in that? Where is the celebration in that?
What if you no longer had to prove your value?
I really want you to look at this for a moment with complete honesty.
Ask yourself -
Where am I devaluing myself? What am I being and doing to devalue myself?
Where am I refusing to recognize my own value and as a consequence devaluing myself? Isn’t it funny that we would do that?
What would it take for me to claim, own and acknowledge my own value?
What if you could destroy all the refence points of “being valuable” is, in every situation?
Just STOP this constant computation of what your perceived value IS.
What if you could live your life valuing you?
Acknowledge that you are the gift that the world has been waiting for.
What if you are the most valuable product just the way you are, and you had to change nothing?
The day you realize you can start living your life as a celebration of YOU every day.
Did you notice the sense of relief you felt the moment you heard me say this? This doesn't mean I'm telling you to be arrogant, being disrespectful of people and start doing superiority.
What I'm inviting you to BE, is your natural self.
What if you could just get off this emotional roller coaster ride which comes for free when you are constantly computing, validating and reaffirming your value all the time?
So, in 2023, what if, the moment you get into this need of proving your value and start to change yourself or someone else or something else, you could just STOP ?
You are the most valuable product my friend…don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
BE it,
Live BEing it,
Enjoy Living it…
With Happiness,
Tina Chakrabarti
